Relationship Expert, Joro Olumofin Speaks on 8 Things Men Should Do To Make Their Marriage Work
Joro Olumofin has taken it upon himself to advice men on a few important things they should do to keep their marriage going on smoothly.
He titled it as ‘Letter to Husbands‘ and subtitled as ‘you should have sex with your wife at least 16 times a week‘. His ‘Case study’ involved Nigerian men
The popular relationship expert and blogger emphasized on the fact that society has put so much pressure on women these days. He said if a man cheats it’s his wife’s fault for not keeping him or satisfying him. Joro says this notion is absolutely wrong.
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He said:
“There are a million things a woman is asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man is asked to do to keep his woman. We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and we’re doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship.
Most Men act like they are the only ones who are granted free PASS to cheat or it is their right to cheat. Women can cheat as well.”
Here are a list of things Joro advices that Husbands should do to make their relationship work.
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- Sex : You should have sex with your wife at least 16 times a week and Oral sex 5 times a week. This is your duty as man. It is your responsibility. No excuses
- You must not have passwords on your phone or any device. If passwords are necessary, your wife should have them all.
- You must not let her food waste. A happy married man shouldn’t be seen eating outside only lunch at work is allowed.
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- Bring your wife breakfast in bed and bring back a gift from work everyday. Every single day. Even if it is fruits, a wig, a painting or flowers.
- Prayer schedule. Fix a prayer & fasting routine once a month with your wife to tackle personal issues.
- Even if she has a job. She deserves a weekly or monthly allowance of at least N100,000.
- Men complain that their wives don’t look the same as when they first met. A lot of men have pot bellies too. Work on your physical appearance.
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- Listen to her. No matter how tired or busy you are. Listen to her and gossip with her.
If you don’t appreciate your wife. She may seek appreciation elsewhere. It’s a full time job to be a good wife. Make it a full time job to be a good husband.
In April Joro had caused a few traffic in April after he released pictures on Instagram that looked like pre-wedding photos with Ex Big Brother Naija 2017 Fake Housemate Ese Eriata. These two are still mute over the alleged relationship or what is between them.
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He has said it all, the sex issue won’t work for everyone
Spot on Joro, you be man.
Good one
good
And about the 100000 Naija per month, let men give according to their earnings pls… .. Some men don’t even earn 100k per month