Dear MIMsters: Am I Wrong or Right About Calling My Hubby’s Bluff
I want you to tell me where I went or I am going wrong.
When hubby got his American Visa last year, our rent had just expired. All the monies we gathered together were penned down for his trip. As we could no longer renew our rent due to financial constraints, hubby came up with the idea to move me into his parent’s house and to live with them.
Of course I disagreed. I had to go on a trip and. I returned to find out that hubby had moved all our belongings to his parent’s house. When I got there, I told him that I cannot cope with this arrangement and he bluntly told me to pack my things out if I cannot live with his parent.
I lived with his parents for 8 months while he was in America. His mother even lied against me and it went viral. He said his siblings said I will kill their mother and that I should leave his parent’s. To cut the story short, there was always problems and clashes with his family about something I said or didn’t say.
So when my husband asked for a divorce, I moved in with my sister with my things.
Now he is ready to continue with the marriage on the condition that I move back into his parent’s house. I told him no, that I want an accomodation of my own. I don’t want to live with his parents again.
Since I declined going back to live with his parents, he’s telling people that I am not submissive.
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Am I wrong or right?
You are right. How can a man want his wife to be living with his parents? My dear remain where you are oh before you go back and face even more troubles. Remain where you are until he rents an apartment for you or you do it yourself. I dislike Nigerian men because most of them don’t have any respect for their wives feelings.
As far as am concerned your man is very selfish, from your story I can deduce you guys don’t have kids yet. So what stops you from applying together and moving to the US together? Please don’t go to live with his parents.
Pls don’t leave with his parents, u will be inviting more trouble if u do.
he isn’t ready.what rubbish
You are absolutely right. Look at what happened when u first lived with them. U wld only be courting trouble. At times as women we need to stand our ground. Please don’t go and stay with them.