Dear MIMsters: Did I do Something Wrong to My Boyfriend I’m in a Long Distance Relationship With?
I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy now for one year. We have been in constant communication and when he’s around we always meet up and have a quality time together.
I have never asked him for money since I have a well paying job but he gives me gifts when he comes.
When he came this time around, he asked to meet me because he was to leave the next day early in the morning. Since I was working, I told him that we can meet up after work and I would leave work early.
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He said that time would be late. I called him and asked him why he thought it was late. He started saying he is unwell and doesn’t want to move up and about. He was the one who came up with the idea of meeting up in the first place before leaving.
He then told me angrily that he’ll call a cab to meet me once I get off from work.
Later, I tried his number again but it was switched off. So when I got off work I called him but he didn’t pick, I sent him a text but he never replied.
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I called a second time but the phone didn’t go through. We had plans to start introductions and dowry negotiations for this period when he’ll be here. I really don’t understand what happened because he’s never behaved this way before and he’s the one who’s always talking about meeting family and all.
relax don’t b worked up.keep tryin to reach him n if he doesn’t pick or reach u back try call a frnd of his or fam member you know to b sure he is fine if he is fine n doesn’t still call u or pick ur calls then let him be.it would fen mean he wants out.
There’s no cause for an alarm yet.
Go and see him in person and talk to him. This is a small issue.