Actress Obot Etuk Preaches Abstinence to Singles: “You cannot use sex to prove love”
Veteran Nollywood actress turned costumier Obot Etuk, has dished out some marital and sex advice for young ladies out there.
She took to Facebook to advise ladies from staying away from sex before marriage. According to Etuk, any man who demands for sex before marriage isn’t the right man.
Obot Etuk who got married to her estranged hubby in 1985 when she was just 15 years and he was just 18 years old is a mother to three grown children.
Her marriage to the father of her children crashed in 2002 when he allegedly fell in love with a foreigner when he relocated and has not returned to Nigeria for a long time.
Obot Etuk has since been taking care of her three children all alone. She shared this write up on social media and we guess we can take something from it. Read below:
“My young lady……..If he is insisting on sex before marriage, he is not the man for you. You cannot use sex to prove love. Goats have sex. Infact, dogs have sex and everywhere too but they are not in love.
If sex means love, then the prostitute should fall in love with every man she has sex with.
Sex is meant for marriage young lady.
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Waiting is the real love. It is mark of maturity. That is the kind of man you should say yes to, not the one that wants you to compromise your virtue, pride, dignity, just to satisfy his lust.
And how many will you love cos I’m sure he’s not the only man you’ve had sex with. #EyenBoIfiok #TruthIsBitter #LearnFromOthersMistakes. Remembering Pastor Bimbo (Continue To Rest Ma).”
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Having sex with a guy would not guarantee love or marriage. Do you agree with Obot?
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I so agree with her.sex should be saved till marriage.sex won’t make him love u pregnancy won’t keep him
She’s so right.
Nail on the head.