Dear MIMsters: I Feel Used and Dumped! How Do I Deal With This?

Dear MIMsters, being here has taught me lot of things about life but right now, I feel used and dumped.

I really want to appreciate everyone here for that. I have a problem for which I need help. I have tried to cry it out but the tears are not coming.

I met this guy a year before I started dating my boyfriend whom I hardly ever see. This guy and I lost contact after he asked me to date him but l refused.

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We met again this year when l went for a job hunt and he gave me the job. We started working together and a relationship developed afterwards. He told me he loves me so much. This was more than 6 months into working with him.

He kept showing me love and caring for me such that I started developing deep feelings for him.

We decided to meet on one particular weekend, at his place. There, he complained that l am too demanding, and that l like seeking for his attention. This was the same attention he had showered me with when he was pestering me to date him. Now he is also saying that l am too emotional.

The night before l left, he shouted at me and pushed me away when I tried to hug him while he was busy doing something. He begged me afterwards and I let it go.

It has been one month since I’ve been to his house and now, he’s been avoiding me. He acts like l am just his employee and scolds me in public.

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I really want to forget about this guy but l just can’t. Whenever l close my eyes, l regret ever going to bed with him and l see myself as a cheap whore before him. I just don’t know whether to quit this job or not. I am confused.