Dear MIMsters: Help! I’m In Love With Two Nice Men & I Can’t Seem To Choose!

I would like to ask for advice on some issues concerning my relationships, please don’t judge or insult me as I need help to choose one of these nice men.

I am a graduate and 24 years old. I have been in a relationship since 2013 but I only got to meet his family last year and he also got to meet mine.

He is based outside the country and is currently in schooling and working at the same time. He sends me money sometimes and we talk as often as we can, taking into consideration the time difference.

He relocated in January and since then, I have done my best to be faithful to him. The plan was to join him later this year, even though we have not started processing my papers,

Two months ago, I stumbled across this guy I once knew. We got talking and exchanged numbers and I found out that he now has a son.

He is pressuring me to settle down in a marriage with him. The worst part of it all is that I am
already having feelings for him, feelings that seem to increase with each passing day. I am confused because and I don’t know how to get myself out of this situation.

My mum on the other hand is not helping issues; she said she doesn’t want me to get married to a Benin guy. Coincidentally, they are both from Benin and they are both caring.

I’m stuck in the middle of two nice men and I do not know who to choose.

Please help me!