Dear MIMsters: Should I Call My Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife To Hear Her Side Of The Story?
Hello MIMsters, please, I need urgent advice on this unusual and troubling issue. I need to know if it would be right to call my boyfriend’s estranged wife to hear her side of the story.
I am in a relationship with a man who was once married and has a child from the previous marriage. I met him after he parted ways with his wife and we have been together for two years now. I have asked him what happened between him and his wife, and all he told me was that the woman moved out of the house without his knowledge.
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He said that she never respected him and always insulted him. He told me that she went to a prayer house and brought some strange things into his house. He reported the issue to his family in order to solve the issue and she moved out.
Sincerely, he’s a very nice and caring person; I wonder why a woman will just decide to leave her home. Now the woman is sending people to beg him but he has refused to listen to her pleas. I even asked him to let me go and resolve issues with him but he said asking that of him meant I wish him death.
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I now have the woman’s number, so I want to know; would it be right for me to call her to hear her side of the story? If it is, how should I go about it?
Their child is 3 years old and she lives with his mum. I know he loves his child wholeheartedly, but I want to know and hear both sides of the story.
him mm I suggest u just walk away
Hmmmmmmmm
I will suggest if you really love this man you can continue but if not quit. if you continue be prayerful because of the nature of the other woman. findout from his mum what really happened without him knowing than calling the other woman to avoid exposure to unnecessary threat. Good luck!
My dear sister I will suggest u just waka pass. There’s always more to the story which they’ll never tell u. Just pray that God shud reveal to u whatever is hidden. I was once in a relationship like that before, told me he had a son which I never had problem with. Told my family members about him and they told me to wait that I will see if he’s truely mine. Lo and behold, the story told itself. He’s told so many lies, the person that told me he has just one son has three kids from different women. Ur story may not end up exactly this way but I will also tell u to wait and pray. Don’t underestimate the power of prayer. God will provide ur own man.
I will suggest you call her to find out the truth.Atleast,her reaction will tell if she’s all he accussed her of.Do you know that some men will tell lies against their ex to win the heart of a new girlfriend and if you are not careful he will treat you same way he treated his ex.
Sometimes we create problems for ourselves by going where we are not supposed to….