“Marriage matter na serious matter”- Timi Dakolo on Relationships and Marriage

Nigerian singer Timi Dakolo, who was recently slammed for blaming divorcees for the alarming rise of divorce in the country (read here) has once again taken to his Instagram page to give advice on relationship and marriage.

The happily married father of three and first winner of West African Idols, advised couples not to get married until they are both ready.

He also told young women that it is okay to ask guys to define the relationship and where it is headed.

Read what he wrote below;

”AUNTY PLEASE IF YOU ARE READY AND HE IS NOT READY ..UNA NEVER READY AND BROTHER IF YOU ARE READY AND SHE IS NOT READY.. UNA NEVER READY.

THIS MARRIAGE MATTER NA SERIOUS MATTER.. DON’T LET FAMILY PEOPLE TALK PUSH UNA INSIDE MATTER WEY SUPPOSE LAST FOREVER.. IT IS NOT THEIR READY..AND IT NOT THEIR FOREVER.. #LOVEANDCONSEQUENCES.

PART 2: SISTER, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ASKING BROTHER.. PLEASE O WHERE IS ALL THIS I LOVE YOU AND I CAN’T BREATHE WITHOUT YOU HEADED.

I JUST NEED TO KNOW.. LET US DEFINE THIS MATTER… IT IS IMPORTANT TO ME. #LOVEANDCONSEQUENCES

PART 3: DEAR AUNTY SOME BROTHER HAVE READY SINCE BUT WHEN THE BROTHER CALCULATE THE COST OF MARRYING YOU..HIM GO JUST UNREADY.

PLEASE AUNTY AND HER FAMILY PEOPLE, BROTHER CANNOT COME AND USE HIS WHOLE LIFE SAVINGS DO WEDDING NA.. ABI NA SELLING UNA DEY SELL THE GIRL? THEM GO CHOP AFTER THE WEDDING NA.

NOTE: THE MARRIAGE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE WEDDING.”

The soul singer is married to his baby mama Busola Dakolo. The couple who are parents to three beautiful children celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary early this year, 31st of March.

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Picture credit: Timi Dakolo Instagram