Dear MIMsters: Is Hubby Regretting a Decision We Both Made Together Years Ago?

Years ago, hubby and I made a decision together, a life changing one. His recent behaviour makes me think he is regretting it. Is he?

Before I was able to conceive, hubby and I tried for so many years. Hubby’s sperm was the issue.

Thankfully, he agreed to do IVF after we had done all kinds of test and the results pointed to his sperm. Before we started the IVF, a surgery was carried out on hubby to fix his sperm.

When they tried to use his sperm to fertilise my eggs, the doctor broke the sad news that hubby’s sperm cannot still fertilize my eggs because it is abnormal.

Surprisingly, the doctor asked if he could use a donor’s sperm. Hubby and I both accepted.

The problem is ever since I gave birth to this baby till today, my husband has become a beast. I know him very well as a tough guy with a hardened heart, but people see him as the best while they think I am the one who controls him.

What is going on now is that each time this my little boy has an attack while sleeping, and I start to pray against the attack and those behind it, my hubby would get so angry and would stop talking to me. We used to pray together and I thought he had the fear of God but since this child came, he’s not been happy.

I need your assistance to help me figure this out. Is hubby’s change due to the fact that the sperm I conceived with isn’t his? Or maybe I didn’t know him well enough before we got married.

When I was pregnant, I had a dream where someone slapped me. When I called the prophetess who always pray with me, she told me I must not tell hubby my EDD which was not possible since he’s the one who drove me to the hospital.

So many strange things have been going on since I had this child and I’m not happy anymore. What should I do? I need to be happy to take care of my son.