Dear MIMsters: After The End of My Marriage, Is This My Second Chance Staring At Me?

A while ago, I shared my story and sought for advice. I want to know if I should take this as a second chance.

This is my original story below:

I’m in my late 20s dating this guy I met 2 years ago. We had our introduction 6 months after and it was an elaborate one. My bride price (sadaki) was paid that day.

Hubby and his mum insisted that I move in with him so I could get pregnant quickly, which I did. I left my job and shop behind in another state and moved.

Initially, everything was fine, but later, I noticed my MIL always talked bad about my FIL and his family. She even told me that my FIL has cast a spell on my husband. So, I became over protective of my husband without knowing I was working towards my doom.

After a year and some months, I insisted we visit the hospital for different test which was how I got to know that my husband has low sperm count. When MIL started pestering and frustrating for not conceiving, I told her about the result.

I got was the shock of my life when she insulted and called me names. She called my mother and I witches. She told my husband and his siblings lies about me and told hubby to send me away.

Even though hubby insisted I stayed, he started misbehaving by cheating on me. His mum said he should choose between me and her. I begged and begged but she said I will never get married to her son. Later, her son beat me up and asked me to leave. His younger sisters were laughing and making jest of me.

I came to this platform a year ago to seek for advice on what to do as I had no job? Remember?

Fast forward to recent times, I relocated back to my former state but a different area. I got an apartment and a teaching job and I started working. Where I teach, I had a female boss who unfortunately passed away during a fibroid surgery.

The husband of my boss happens to be the first son of the owner of the school. After the death of my boss, I was appointed to take charge because I was active and capable. Sounds like good news, right?

Hmmnn!! The thing is the husband of my former boss is now my direct boss and I am expected to report to him everyday.

As time went on, he asked me out and then asked me to marry him. They had no child together. He’s been begging and asking me to be his wife.

My question is should I or marry him or not? I don’t want to get hurt again but this man is a very good man. Is this my second chance staring right in my face?