Dear Mimsters: I Feel So Ashamed of Myself Right Now
Hello Mimsters, I feel just too sad and ashamed of myself right now.
I am 25 and have been in a relationship with this 37 year old guy for 3 months now.
I have a very busy schedule such that I always get back home by 9 p.m everyday. So, he mostly visits me at my shop and we usually have lunch or a stroll together.
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Today, I decided to take a day off and rest so I cooked and invited him for lunch. After lunch, he proposed a stroll which I accepted. As we went on a long drive around town, he picked up a lady and we drove off to a nearby snack shop.
While sharing a drink, he made the introductions. He said to me, “please meet my wife”, and to the wife he said, “please meet my girlfriend and wife to be.”
Goodness! I had cold feet as this woman extended a handshake to me. I found my body numb while he emptied his bottle like nothing had just happened. My shock was heightened when his wife also emptied hers with so much ease. I couldn’t even touch mine, all I could do was gather myself together to call a cab to leave. I turned down his offer to drop me off right in front of his wife.
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How do I handle this because I’m in so much shock right now that I can’t even still believe it was reality. I can’t even think.
Calm down, take deep breaths, take a walk around the house then take a shower. Afterwards pick your phone up, block that guy on every avenue you know he can reach you on and then sleep. That guy is not worth being in shock over.
it may be a test, men are very funny sometime, he may want to test how tolerant u are. so pls calm and watchful.