Dear MIMsters: I Am an Unloved Wife, So I Have Decided to This

I am an unloved wife who wants to say a big thank you to you for creating this group.

May God bless you mightily. I sent in a post sometime in March recounting how I saw a condom in my husband’s bag and after asking him, said it belonged to a friend of his. I did write that since then, he has stopped eating my food and started keeping malice with me and would not have sex with me.

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I want to thank you all for your comments and would like to announce that I had delivered my baby on the 9th of this month, a bouncing baby girl. I had no tears, no cut neither did I have any complications.

The problem now is that I want to leave this marriage. I want a separation from my husband even though my baby is not up to a month old.

The last straw for me happened yesterday when we had a little misunderstanding and he gave me 3 solid slaps. This is not the first nor second time that he will be slapping me. I got angry and told him that “what kind of training were you raised with?” “What kind of orientation and mindset do you have towards women? You are wicked!”

He got upset and told me that for me telling him that he wasn’t properly trained by his parents, that I should go and apologise to his father and his dead mother in her grave.

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I want to leave him but I need help. I want to go far from him before he kills me but I don’t know anywhere to go to. I don’t know who can help me by giving me a place to stay for a while in Maiduguri.

My husband cheats on me, beats me at any slightest provocation, and doesn’t give me money. Infact, he hates me and I cannot live with him anymore.