Dear MIMsters: He’s Everything I Want In A Man But For This One Thing
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months now and we are planning to get married in six months. He has everything I am looking for in a man but for this one thing.
He is a pastor and I am the first woman he has ever dated. The only problem that I have with him is his teeth. They are not good at all. I thought they would get better but I have noticed that they are gradually moving from their yellow colour to green and it seems it’s getting worse.
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I am very disturbed and this gives me second thoughts about marrying him because I don’t know what his church members have been saying about his teeth. I also can’t imagine me kissing those teeth after we get married.
I am a nurse and I know I can help him get rid of all that tartar and carries but I don’t know how to put this across without embarrassing or offending him. The very moment he smiles, and I see those teeth, it pisses me off so much that I just want to quit the relationship immediately.
If you truly love this brother, I think is best you help in get rid of the issue with his teeth. So tell him there is a problem with his teeth. If that angers him, then that is bigger problem. Tell him nicely and jokely.
Dis is a very simple matter, i said it is simple cos u re sure u ave a solution to it. Just tell him in a very loving manner that u would like him to try out somthing dat it works wonder, and dat even u have used it before wen u noticed some plagues on ur teeth and it took dem off. Give him d stuff and see how it works on d teeth, dere is no perfect human being. Dere must surely be somtin u wished u culd change. In ds era of bad marriages , if u tink teeth is d only tin dat would prevent u from marrying a gud man. Pls fix d teeth issue now and go ahead. Best wishes.
Talk to him about it and help him get rid of it. If he doesn’t agree then you should rethink.