Dear MIMsters: I Will Show My Husband that Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned

My husband went too far this time around and I will show him that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

My husband is the most insecure man I have ever known yet I love you so much but this time around, he went too far!

How can Tunde accuse me of sleeping with Sayo, his younger brother? I was already married to Tunde when Sayo was just graduating from secondary school. If you do the mathematics right, Sayo is almost 15 years younger than me and I have younger brothers who are much older than Sayo so how could my own husband accuse me of sleeping with his own younger brother?

And to make matters worse, he is spreading the news without shame or remorse! He has been telling people he caught us red-handed on our matrimonial bed. No! Tunde has gone too far this time around and I am not going to take things lightly with him like I used to.

I am a Christian, but for this grave allegation, I will seek a native doctor who can help us unravel the truth. I am really depressed!

This is my story.

Tunde and I were secondary school sweethearts who ended up married. Our school mates still marvel at how intense our love is to have ended up the way we did. We finished our secondary school education the same year, got admissions into Ibadan Polytechnic for our OND programme the same year though for different programmes. We did our one year attachment at the same office- My elder sister worked it for us, we returned to school for our HND programme at the same time, went for NYSC in the same state, and a year after service, we got married.

Why did I state all of the above you may want to ask?

I need you to understand that we have always been together and it should be expected that we would trust ourselves enough and know what each person is capable of by now. Tunde and I have been moving together for 32 years out of which we’ve been married for 21 years. We have grown up children and as much as possible, I try to present a front that says all is well to them. I love Tunde very much and I am not sure I can even live without him but it’s as if he derives pleasure in driving me mad with the way he keeps accusing me of infidelity.