Lola Okoye Shares Inspiring Piece On How She Handles Family Tensions

Lola Okoye has been at the centre of simmering family tensions for a while and has been blamed for the fall out of her husband, Peter with his twin brother Paul, as well as the break up of their Psquare music group.

In the midst of all the brewing tensions, Lola has remained unruffled in the eyes of the public, using annual occasions as birthdays and anniversaries to share warm thoughts to her family and in-laws despite the obvious bad blood.

For those who wonder how Lola has kept her head above water, she has finally broken her silence.

Read her post below…

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“People send me DM’s asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple: Anger only hurts you! What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth! When your sense of satisfaction and self worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant need of validation from randoms is so unhealthy. We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way? Only YOU are responsible for your pyschic hygiene, only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness everyday, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life experiences good and bad. Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters. Your acts of kindness are never wasted because ultimately, God sees your heart and that is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week my Insta-fam! #lollipop #truth #love”

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