Dear MIMsters: Should I Yield To This Wealthy Man Who Has Promised Me All These?

Should I yield to this wealthy man who has promised me all these?

I’ve read a lot of stories here and I feel I will get valuable advice from here on this issue that is seriously bothering me. I do seriously need a job even though I do small businesses here and there and presently doing my Masters.

I rounded up my NYSC on October, 2015. While serving, I took a side job with a security company as a marketer for two months but I was never paid. Not a dime even to recover my transport expenses. On one of those days of looking for prospects, I met this man at a hotel I visited and he wanted my number, but I politely declined.

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About a month later, a Church member connected me to a wealthy man who is in need of our products. When I got to the office, it was this same man I met at that hotel sometime ago. I tried to be as polite as possible. Well, I had to release my number for further communication. This man is wealthy and he did try to flaunt his wealth as much as he could. I politely declined all his extensions of “kindness”. He kept telling me he would get me a better job after NYSC in Abuja. Later, I got to know that all the Corp members he dated are working in Abuja. I know one of the girls he dated, she was in my platoon.

I was brought up not to accept gifts from men, so I declined when he tried to change my phone by offering me a new one. He actually works in Abuja but visits the state where I was serving often. When he’s visiting, he would call to ask me if I wanted anything but I would politely decline. This man’s interest in me heightened but he never mentioned purchasing any of the equipments I was marketing again.

I do visit Abuja regularly as most of my siblings live there. So when I’m in Abuja, he would beg to see me, but I would politely refuse. So, he stopped trying in February 2017.

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Last week, a message popped up on my WhatsApp, it was him, asking if I had found a job yet, I said no and he was furious. He said my pride will kill me and all. Believe me, this isn’t pride. I’m presently 28, still a virgin, although I’m very outgoing and boisterous so you can hardly tell. Meanwhile, this man is full of lust, always making reference to my big breasts and how he likes them.

I do really need a job URGENTLY and he is asking me to see him on Monday. I know this man loves sex because he has told me point blank that he wants me. He says that if I can cooperate with him, I will enjoy. Should I go see him and plead with him to help me? I’ve not been able to bring myself to have sex with young guys, let alone this man. What do I do?