Relationship Expert, Samuel Chukwuma Iwar’s Message To Women About In-Laws Is A Game Changer
A happily married relationship coach, Samuel Chukwuma Iwar, recently took to his Instagram page to narrate what happened the first day his girlfriend, now his wife, met his mother.
According to him, his wife who was dressed in a pair jeans was nervous about how her deeper life mother-in-law to be would receive her.
Unknown to her, the aged woman was also trying to impress her son’s woman because her son had asked her to impress his girlfriend. The now happily married man had already told his parents how much he loves her and asked that they impress her so she will want to be a part of their family.
He went on to tell women that they shouldn’t be the only ones trying to impress their in-laws, and that their in-laws should also be “desperate” to show them they are “in-law material” and make them want to be a part of their family.
He wrote:
”This is my wife and my mum in 2014. The very first time they met. My wife was worried because she was wearing jean pants. She wondered if she should go home and change into a skirt. My parents are deeper lifers. Most Nigerians would understand.
What my wife did not understand, was that I had told my family how much I love her…and what value she brings to the table…and how THEY should also impress her, because I wanted her to desire to be a part of my family.
Listen ladies, your in-laws should be DESPERATE to show you they are IN-LAW MATERIAL just as much as you want to show them you are WIFE MATERIAL.
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Know your worth. You are the favour in his life! You are bringing value. Never forget that! Now go ahead and tag all your female friends. Some of you will still not repost this one for your friends to see.”
This is a game-changer in a country like Nigeria where the in-laws of the woman are known to predominantly call the shots.