Lifestyle Blogger, Ajike, Gives Tips To Single Women On How To Spot A Sensible Nigerian Man on Social Media
If you are a single woman who does not consider it odd to search the net for love, media personality, and lifestyle blogger, Ajike has just shared an interesting article on how to spot a Nigerian man ‘with sense’ on social media with particular reference to popular dating app, Tinder.
According to her, ‘If youâre like me, who is always single but in need of male company yet wonât go out cos humans suck, and you need a guide on how to maneuver through the riffraffs of Tinder – then this is for you. The rest of you can stop reading at this point’.Â
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The blogger seemed to have tested the waters and mastered the terrains of online dating that she shared some practical cues while maintaining some hilarity.
Read her full post below:
Ok ladies, Iâve been on Tinder on and off for 5 years now and Iâve noticed a few things that can help you navigate right when swiping left or right. So, Tinder is generally filled with horny Nigerian men who have no money or weak stroke game. (No, Iâve never met a dude off Tinder and fucked him, itâs just something about the way they act and talk that says so).
Anyways, before I get sidetracked, Iâm gonna breakdown certain things you need to be on the lookout for before swiping right on that guy just âcos he looks so cute. Seriously, you sef, have sense!
His profile pic – Please donât get carried away by the first cute pic you see when swiping! Make sure you go through ALL his pics before concluding that heart cute. Iâve noticed that the really fugly ones try to take selfies from odd angles so you canât see their third chin or lazy eye properly. A confident man would âownâ each pic, not look like he was forced to take each one. Itâs very painful to look at unno.
His bio – So, youâve spotted a cutie and youâre about swiping right…. Wait!!! Have you checked his bio? Does it include any of the words âcoolâ âcalmâ âcollectedâ? Please, abort mission! Or is his bio bare yet his photos lack any presence? Must mean the individual lacks sense too. The worst ones are those that actually include âsapiosexualâ in their bio. Like, yo! If you were truly sapiosexual your bio would be filled with smart witty quips! If his bio doesnât seem well thought out but rather has a generic feel to it, please swipe left with immediate effect.
His sense – Now youâve swiped right and it matches with the cutie youâve been purring over and itâs time to determine whether or not he is an avid user of common sense. If he already swiped right for you beforehand you did, then you should initiate the convo. Depending on what his response is, youâd know within 10mins of chatting if he has sense or not. Fun thing I like about Tinder is that you can âunmatchâ with someone if the person was an âerrorâ swipe.
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On when to share your phone number and move things to WhatsApp, the blogger says to wait a few days and observe the men while chatting with them on the dating site.
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NOTE – Donât be too eager to add them on WhatsApp. Chat for a few days on the app with them, get a sense of what they want from you (this mostly depends on what you want too tho), donât be afraid to let them know if they are being inappropriate or disrespectful. Most importantly, if itâs marriage youâre looking for directly – Tinder is NOT for you! Try âChristian Mingleâ or âFacebookâ.
I must mention that there are certain accounts you just HAVE TO swipe left for. The ones with no shirt on in almost all their pics, the ones always chilling in the clubs, the ones always taking selfies in cars or by cars, the ones that look like obvious Yahoo Bois, the ones with their wives included in their picture slide, your exes of course, and most importantly any profile of a white military man issa trap! Youâd be shocked at how many fraudsters youâd meet on Tinder. Some are there to defraud you of money while most just wanna defraud you of pussy! Stay sharp ladies, because most of these men are moving mad unno.
I do sincerely hope Iâve been able to be of some help to those who have been thinking of joining Tinder. Iâve made some cool friends via there but Iâm yet to meet any guy off there thatâs worth the risk for a sexual adventure. As I said earlier, this is a Tinder guide for Nigerian women like me. If you know youâre only aspiring to be like me, mbok Twitter is your dating app for now.
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