Controversial Actress, Tonto Dikeh Has This To Say About The Deeper Implications Of Casual Sex
Controversial mum and actress, Tonto Dikeh has shared some insights on the deeper issues surrounding sex which she described as the creation of ‘soul ties’. The mum-of-one essentially described sex as a form of spiritual entanglement where more damage than good is possible, especially in the case of having casual sex.
Tonto who shared her insights on Instagram explained that people set themselves up for failure when they have casual sex, adding that a person becomes who they sleep with, and if they sleep with multiple people, they end up accruing multiple complexities.
Here’s what she wrote:
“Anytime you have sex with a person you bond with them. SOUL TIES ARE REAL??If youâre having casual sex with a few partners or even just one and claim youâre doing it with no strings attached….youâre full of it and setting yourself up for failure!
Two people may decide to have sex just for the fun of it, yet something is occurring on another level.
Sex is enhancing an emotional bond between them whether they want it or not. One person, often the woman, is bound to form an attachment and will be hurt when a casual affair ends.
Why do you think itâs so hard to let go of a partner whoâs hurt, disrespected and maybe abused you? Theyâve transferred negative energy into you and continue to pollute your beautiful soul with their toxic energy!
“SEX IS SO POWERFUL, AFTER ENGAGING IN IT, IT CAN MYSTERIOUSLY HAVE YOU LONGING FOR A PERSON YOU MAY NOT EVEN LIKE! THAT IS A SOUL TIE! Sis, does he like you?
Does he know you, do you know him? How long until he stops calling if the sex stops? No matter how tough you are, a piece of him still lies in you, even when youâre through.
You could be having soul ties and giving a piece of you to a demonic spirit! This isnât a joke, this is real! You canât let these liquored up, drugged up, chemically imbalanced, mentally unstable spirits lay with you!
Stop giving away so many pieces of you to men who are already broken and could care less about building with you! You ask how do you know heâs broken?
Thatâs what courting and getting to know him is for. Sis, youâve got to work on you before God sends a man deserving and worthy of you! Your nights may get lonely but with God you are never alone.
Itâs ok to take a hiatus and give your mind, body and soul a break. Mend those pieces and get whole on your own. Only then youâll attract the man who will value you, appreciate your beauty, and admire your amazing soul!â-Ms. Bling”
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