Outspoken dad and OAP, Ifedayo Ayorinde aka Daddy Freeze has reacted to a statement made by a Ghanaian counselor that women will not have peace if they refuse to give their husbands peace. Freeze opposed the statement and added ten years ago, he would not have questioned such standing but that the experience he has gained between then and now has shown him that a woman cannot single-handedly create peace in her marriage.
‘Giving peace’ is not the duty of one party, Freeze insists. Conscious efforts to make the marriage work is the responsibility of each couple and a woman cannot give peace to a man who robs her of peace.
”Ten years ago I’d have agreed with her wholeheartedly. Today, with the experience that I’ve gained, it’s a totally different ball game. –
‘Giving peace’ is the job of both parties. I give @tastebudzng peace, she gives me peace in return; or she gives me peace and I return her peace and the peace is maintained. –
No woman can continue to give peace to a man who doesn’t reciprocate her gesture and no man can give peace to a feisty and troublesome woman. –
Peace has to be I. Equilibrium. This doesn’t mean you won’t have issues from time to time or you won’t have quarrels but being peaceful and peaceable should be the utmost priority of both husbands and wives”
