Actress and mother of two, Uche Elendu has advised women to stay above approval-seeking behaviour on social media. In the post she shared on Instagram, the single mum highlighted that the gains are different for each woman depending on what she chooses to priotitise.
Sharing an animated photo depicting a “slay queen” whose motive is to get validation from her followers, and a “hustling queen” who is working to survive, the actress shared that the number of followers you have on social media is equal to the number of people who monitor your every step and are eager to bear tales about you.
She opines on the other hand that a woman who has risen above approval-seeking behaviour on social media is able to built lasting success.
She wrote:
”Beautiful women, Choose your path wisely, Social media validation leads you no where, cos all dem singing your praise in your comment section will train their daughters to be everything
BUT your kinda woman, theres no real love out here, the number of followers u gat is equals to the number of monitoring spirits watching and waiting to see you fail.
Hey sis! Yea you I’m talking to you… social media is an illusion, dont get carried away by the love you’re getting on here, is your bank account showing you same love?
Are your family and friends benefiting from the love??? Will your children in years to come be proud of what you put out there?
I ain’t no saint guys but I’ll never need social media validation to tell me Hey Uche you’re a huge Success… I am grateful Lord!! Thank you.
You all are doing well… I love you
