Ivie Ibitoye, the wife of music producer, Temitayo Ibitoye a.k.a Tee-Y Mix, has written an open letter to her family and friends cautioning them on the silent pressure they put on expectant couples.
In a series of posts shared on her Instastories, Ivie who got tied the knot with Tee-Y Mix in August 2019, pointed out that it is not in anyone’s place to calculate when a person got married and why they do not have kids.
She mentioned that it is not anyone’s business and that people should learn to mind their business. The HR expert opined that just as marriage is not an achievement, having children isn’t an achievement as well.
She averred that when people get to heaven, they will not be given extra points for having children and getting married.