Harry Song Bares His Thoughts On The Complexities Of Marriage: ‘You Have No Business Getting Married If…’
In the latest twist to the Israel DMW and Sheila Courage marital saga, renowned Nigerian musician and media personality, Harry Song has shared his thoughts on the complexities of marriage.
Taking to Instagram, the married Nigerian singer-songwriter delivered a poignant message showcasing the multifaceted nature of matrimony, transcending societal norms, education, wealth, or righteousness.
According to Harry, success in marriage hinges on qualities such as humility, selflessness, tolerance, patience, and a spirit of service.
He added that anyone who is proud and not selfless has no business getting married. In his words:
“Marriage is not for the wise, it is not for the educated nor for the rich. It’s not for the righteous and the over-sabis because none of these can keep you married.
If you cannot be humble, selfless, tolerant, patient, accommodate and serve humanity. That your partner is humanity, you can’t humbly serve him or her? Don’t get married. Generation of pride, selfishness and over sabi.”
Harry Song’s comments come amid the split between Israel-DMW and his estranged wife. Israel recently made headlines by claiming Sheila used him for fame without any real intent to marry.
Israel DMW, who is the logistics manager of popular Nigerian singer Davido, also opened up about the reasons behind their split.
The lengthy account details their meeting in February 2022, the progression of their relationship, and the subsequent challenges that led to their marital troubles.
According to Israel, he and Sheila met during evangelism at their church, where she was described as a virgin and the daughter of a pastor.
The account suggests that Sheila initially set conditions for their relationship, expressing her commitment to saving herself for marriage.
Sheila, on the other hand, countered these allegations with her own harrowing account, detailing physical and emotional abuse from Israel.
She recounted disrespect towards her parents, including direct insults, and highlighted that her decision to leave was a culmination of various incidents since their marriage began.
The situation took another turn when a TikTok user advised Israel not to lose Sheila, emphasizing the importance and insightfulness of her demands. This perspective adds another layer to the public discourse surrounding their split.
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Harry Song’s intervention in this matter reflects a broader commentary on modern relationships, especially in the age of social media and public scrutiny.
His emphasis on humility and service in marriage resonates in the context of the high-profile breakup of Israel-DMW and Sheila Courage.