Help! My Husband Won’t Divorce The White Woman He Married For Papers
I have been having serious marital issues with my husband since two years now. We have never lived together since we got married and this is due to his status in the country we live in. He’s officially married to a white woman for papers eighteen years ago but he has refused to divorce her. They haven’t been living together for the past seven years and their comunacation level is zero.
The reason he’s refused to divorce her isn’t clear to my family and his family but I was told he would gain all the woman’s assets if she dies and that is only posible if they remain married. Meanwhile, I take care of our kids all alone. He comes to visit us whenever he pleases.
So did so many heartbreaking things to me, after which, I decided to threaten him with a divorce. I haven’t seen a man who won’t live together with his family and refuses to take his responsibility. As soon as I said it, I started avoiding him and refused to pick his calls. I closed my central bank which was always open for him anytime. I really wanted him to change and come live with his family. I hardened my mind for as long as it took until now that he has agreed to live with us. But he has told me to forget about divorcing the white woman.
After accepting him back, he took my kids for the weekend last week. When he brought back my kids, I emptied their used clothes into the machine and amongst the clothes were two females clothing, a pair of leggings and a top. I don’t know if he mistakenly packed them in or I just don’t know. Accepting him back and dealing with cheating is something I don’t have strength for. What should I do? I need your candid advice.
Women are wicked. So he should divorce the other woman because he’s gotten what he wants yeah? I hope you know these white women are humans too right and they feel hurt and betrayed just like you. Why Marry a man who is already married? Stop calling him your husband because he is not. He is also a wicked man waiting for his wife to die so as to inherit. What if he dies before her? Has he thought of that possibility? I just wish these white women will wise up and stop falling for this trash they are being given.
I dont understand why you should accept this guy biack knowing fully well he wont divorce the other woman. What cheating are we talking about here? You are a sise chic already so you have to deal with it. 2
I guess your hubby his only after the woman assets dats is why he refuses to divorce her
Being black or white doesn’t matter here. Why marry a man who is already married? Have you thought about the Implications? Do you know the heart break this woman will go through when she finds out that her husband is. married to some other lady after 18 years of marriage, 18 good years! for Christ seek! You should put yourself in her shoes. Stop complaining! You are the traitor here.
I will suggest you should swallow your pain and remain in the marriage as wife “number 2” because of your innocent kids but if you wouldn’t mind being a single parent, divorce he, so he can concentrate full on his marriage with his real wife. But I pray he dies first because he is a gold-digger.
why choose to married him in the first place. you are not his wife because you are not officially married to him so don’t complain. anytime you see him just take it like that
Hmmmmmn
You funny sha, so you married a married man with the hope he will divorce his wife(be it white or black) ? Let me ask, is the white woman not a wife? So they are good for green card & not for marriage abi? May you wait for ever if your desire is to hurt another woman simply because she is white. Some women just need their brain upgraded with the word of our Lord & saviour Jesus if not I see no reason in you deliberately hurting the woman by hunting for her hubby husband.
Why marry somebody’s hubby in d first place? Ya fault doh. You are the second wife so try n live wt it. And btw, ya hubby is a cheat
It’s obvious he values the other relationship than yours.The only thing you can do is to get used to the fact that you are in a polygamous relationship
live with it.you chose dat path
This woman u re the destroyer n God will pay u back in ur own coin. Gosh all for the sake of money u n ur family sold una dignity? So he’s waiting for de white woman to die? What if he dies first? And u re waiting for him to divorce anoda woman or is it cause he’s white? Infact may God judge u mtcheeeew women always our own enemies. Karma is a bitch
I wonder why u r complaining. Whether white woman or not, he was married before u married him. As far as I am concerned, u r the intruder her not the white woman.
Your husband is greedy, i wil not ask why u married him when u knew he was already. Move on with ur life, make urself happy cos it seem u are pushing him
U have heard it all
Hmmmmm
You knew before you married him so suck it up
Why do you claim he’s cheating on you while you were actually the one he cheated with? You think that white woman is a ghost? She’s flesh and blood with emotions too. Sorry o.. you cant eat your cake and have it… enjoy your oversea fling!