Mums, Beware! See What A 9 Year Old Girl Did to My 4 Year Old Daughter
I went to visit a friend with my 4 year old daughter recently. While we were there, two ladies and their daughters came in and my daughter started playing with the girls; a baby of about a year plus and a girl about 9 years old. I just let them be and was watching TV. It was soon time to take our leave and we said our goodbyes.
When we got home, my daughter and I had the upsetting conversation below.
Fiyin: Mummy that girl told me to put my hand in her ‘bumbum’ and she was kissing me on my mouth.
Me: Jesus! What! When did it happen?
Fiyin: When we were playing in the house.
Me: So why didn’t you shout like I told you to do if anyone wants to touch your ‘bumbum’?
Fiyin: Because she was kissing me mummy.
Me: Hmmm… So did u touch her ‘bumbum’?
Fiyin: Yes, she told me to put my hand in her pant (she was showing how she did it, pulling her own pant).
Me: Did she touch your own ‘bumbum?’
Fiyin: Yes. She was about to pull my pant when you called me.
I was very disturbed and headed back there with my daughter. However, by the time we got there, they had all gone out. So, I called my friend and explained everything to her. She apologized and said she would talk to the girl and her mother.
My dear mothers and sisters, what is going on in this world? Is it that we expose our kids to too much technology or leave them in the hands of helps and relatives who abuse them sexually? That young girl has been abused and is enjoying it that’s why she wants to experiment with other young girls. I am really upset and don’t know how best to explain to my daughter that what she did was very wrong. She would have told me while we were there or when she made such advances to her in the first place if she knew it was wrong. Or am I overreacting?
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Hmmmmmmm this world is turning into something else. Lord have mercy.
Hmmmm
OMG! That 9 yr old girl is going through sexual abuse and it’s obvious her parents are not aware. This is so sad. Please try and follow it up with your friend to ensure that girl’s mum is informed and she in turn investigates and stops the abuse otherwise that girl will keep abusing little children at the slightest opportunity and she herself could become addicted to it
WTF!!! Please calmly insist on seeing the girl’s mom, plead with your friend to give you her number, if you have to pretend to be gentle over it pls do, but once you meet the woman pls scream, yell, shout, make a big deal out of it, cos someone’s about ruining your little angel. Even the woman would realize she hasn’t been doing a good job handling, monitoring, and being close to her daughter. Please sex education with your daughter should be stepped up to the next level now cos clearly that level of “shout if someone touches your bum” has clearly been crossed. Its well with the new generation.
I don’t think screaming n shouting wud help. I think a gentle talk wud go a better way n also help the lady discover who is sexually molesting her own daughter.
God bless you..
Lord have mercy
What
Dt girls parents needs to be seen for more info
Who tot her dis ad were did she learn it?
Whaaat
pls madam try n follow up on issue,d girls mum nids 2knw wats goin on so she can hlp ha daughter 2.may God hlp us all!
Mmmmmh! Sometimes it jus feels like it’s really impossible with dis generation, I personally feel helpless you can imagine what a girl of 9 already knows without her mom’s knowledge God help us in bringing dis kids up well
This is sad, may God protect our children, as parents we also need to be vigilant
D girl’s mum should know how far her daughter has gone
Oh chim o! God help and protect our children o
This is scary!
Gosh!!!!
Yes ooo. It happened to my 8year old daughter too , and she told us. And my wife was tough about that. Parents, we really need to watch over our children.
Again, we really need to be friendly with our children, so that they can bare their minds.
wow dis is really awfull oh God our little children is in ur hand
This girl must be punished if not she can turn to lesbianism
May God help us in raising our children. It’s scary what our society is becoming especially all in the name of civilization, children are exposed directly or indirectly to all sorts…I think you should speak with the 9year old girls mum in person. The girls need counselling(not necessarily in church or Mosque as you don’t want them stigmatised… U should understand) and I would suggest the 9year old is gotten more busy by getting her more involved in activities that would add more value to her life …Olajumoke Adenowo’s Awesome Treasures Foundation for example…. And to my brother with the Muslim name who said she must be punished so she doesn’t become a lesbian, that’s not how to raise kids,please. That would only encourage her more and in the long run who knows what might happen. Thank you.