Dear MIMsters: How would you handle a mum and sister like mine

I am in a dilemma right now. I need your advice on how to handle a mother and a sister like mine

I am in my late twenties and due to get married in few months. My fiancé and I are in a long distance relationship, so I don’t get to see him all the time but we both make sure we keep the communication line strong.

The reason why I need your advice is because I came down to his place and discovered I could actually get a few stuffs for our wedding at his place at cheaper prices. I was suppose to go back home two weeks after my stay at his place but because of those things I needed to get, I couldn’t. Since it would take a while before I visit him again, I decided to stay a week longer.

I tried to explain to my mum why I needed an extra week to do what I wanted to do but to my amazement, she called my fiancé immediately and started blasting him. The verbal abuse to him was too much, and this is somebody they have known for two years. My elder sister also called him and blasted him as well and mind you, I don’t have anything doing at home with them other than to sit down all day. I know my fiancé is the gentle type and very respectful but with the way they are overreacting, it’s beginning to get to him.

All I do at home is cook all day. I have lost three suitors in the past all because of my mum and sister’s behaviour towards them. I met my fiance miraculously and they have started with him as well. It got as bad as my mum telling him she would involve his family and disgrace him if I don’t come back on the day she wants me to. I have been keeping mute because I’m still shocked at the way things are unfolding. Please what should I do?