Dear MIMsters: He Showered Me With Love and Sponsored Me To School But Things Are Changing Now

I am 25 years old. When I was 22, I started dating a man who was married. He is 40 years old, this man really showered me with love. I told him about the inability of my parent to sponsor me to school, and he agreed to help.

He sponsored my HND all through, and currently I am having my NYSC, during our courtship. I have not met any other guy whom I intended to marry.

The problem now is that, before and during my Nysc, I noticed he was constantly cheating on me. Anytime I checked his phone, I found incriminating evidences that he was cheating on me. And always apologises whenever I confronted him, telling me he loves me and always promises to change but he never did.

He flirts with different girls including his secretaries and others. We have an apartment where we both live anytime we are on holiday. One day, I told him I want to go and see my parent that I won’t be coming on that same day. Butsomething kept on telling me that I should go back home, I decided to go back at the same day.

On getting home, I met him with another girl. He started begging and calling some elderly people to beg me, but I felt betrayed and jilted. Should I leave him or what? He flirts too much, and I’m no longer happy in the relationship. He doesn’t even take good care of me like he use to.