Dear MIMsters: My Husband Has Crossed the Line Right Under My Nose and It’s Heartbreaking
My husband has crossed the line right under my nose and it is not looking good at all.
I work with my husband in his company as the manager. I travelled for a one week holiday so my husband had to be around to manage the work since that is how we alternate. He is usually very strict with the workers but when I returned, I noticed he became free with one particular sales girl. But I didn’t think much of it.
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He told me he wanted to travel with the girl to take stock in another branch. I was surprised but I agreed because I have been ill since I got back. When they got to the city where the other branch is, we were communicating and I realised they were done with the work and could return immediately. To my surprise, he said they would spend the night and leave the next day.
I asked him where the Salesgirl was going to sleep. We have two furnished apartments in that city. So, I suggested he checks her into a hotel whiles he sleeps in the apartment. Throughout the night, I called my husband and he didn’t answer my call.
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The next day, he called me. I asked where the salesgirl slept and he said she slept in the next apartment. I was surprised and angry because that wasn’t the agreement. Since they got back, this girl has changed towards everyone completely. Her dressing and a whole lot has changed.
I heard that my husband was taking her out for lunch and shopping everyday when I traveled. Clearly, everything shows my HUSBAND is sleeping with this girl. They are both always online, chatting with each other. Currently, my husband has travelled. I want to confront him but I need an evidence to support my claim. Now the only evidence I can get now is their whatsapp messages. How do I go about this? How do I get the girl’s phone to check their chat?
I need your help.
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So until you get hard evidence you can’t confront him? When you are clearly convinced he is sleeping with her. BTW what business do you have with the girl’s phone?
what other evidence do u need.
You don’t have business with this girl, your husband should be your paramount focus.
Get a replacement for her immediately so there would be no vacuum then relieve her of her duties you don’t need to tell your husband you sacked her watch what you eat or drink in the office and do not listen to any more gossip concerning your husband