Dear MIMsters: Is MIL Truly the Architect of my Problem?
I need advice on how to handle this situation. I have been looking unto God for the fruit of the womb since I got married nine months ago. I have prayed and Pastors revealed to me that someone very close to my husband is the architect of my inability to conceive.
Another pastor said my MIL was behind it but I dealt with the issue physically and didn’t allow any of such messages get between my MIL and I.
The truth is my MIL didn’t support our union, she just accepted me for the sake of her son’s happiness. But I try my best to be good to her.
One day, a little matter came up which I knew nothing about, she misunderstood the whole thing. The next thing she did was to curse me. She said that I will never have a child for her son. Heaven knows I have done nothing against this woman.
She accused me of snatching her son from her. While her son does everything to make her happy, I do not ever interfere in their matters.
Since this incidence, she’s been calling me but I have ignored her calls. Going through this drama has been so hard for me. I now hold on to faith that God has given me for this marriage and he won’t leave me.
What I want to know is how to handle this. My husband, her son said I must not answer her calls. He has stopped taking her calls anymore.
I brought this here because it’s so hard to spit it out and my father in law must not hear this. I married into a drama-filled family and I don’t like my marital issues being the gossip of the family.
Please ignore her like your husband said. She might not be responsible for what you are going through, but saying a thing like that to you is beyond horrible.
just b prayerfull give her distance
The only good thing is that your husband is behind you on this, so press ignore and keep looking on to God.