Dear MIMsters: My Husband Blames Me for Losing My Baby

I need advice before I do something stupid as I am in a totally confused state right now. My husband blames me for losing my baby.

I have a child who is over 2 years old. I had this child through a C-Section. Last month, I had another baby via a C-Section but lost the baby.

It is is barely 2 months since I lost this baby and hubby has started disturbing me for sex but since I didn’t give in to his request he has become a thorn in my flesh. He abuses me anyhow calling me names that I’m evil, a bad luck, and infact, that I’m the one who killed my baby.

My baby I carried for 9 good months, went to the theatre for but I still could not hold my baby. I’m emotionally depressed and traumatized. Instead of hubby to try to encourage me, the reverse is the case.

We hardly see him at home, his phone is always passworded. I saw a comment he made on a lady’s wall because I’m a mutual friend to the lady. He wrote, “baby you’re so pretty'” and the Lady replied, “thanks.”

He sent again, “I love you sweetheart.” This man is a so called born-again man. During the pregnancy I received beating like a baby.

I’m thinking of leaving the marriage hence, I need your advice.