Dear MIMsters: I Have Been a Good Wife But See How My Husband Repays Me
I am in my late 30s and married with 3 kids, a good wife and mother to my kids.
My hubby doesn’t have a good job but my job pays well. Therefore, I take a large chunk of the family’s expenses and I don’t complain. I love and respect my hubby a lot.
However, I discovered that my hubby engages in sex chats with ladies on WhatsApp and on other social media platforms. I have seen such chats severally and each time I confront him, he will swear he has nothing to do with them. We will argue and settle after making promises not to do again.
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For a while, I have not been seeing these chats because I hardly go through his phone. I didn’t know he still chats but would delete his chats and calls history immediately after use.
This morning, his phone was switched off. When I asked him why, he said because it is still charging. Immediately I turned on the phone, a WhatsApp message entered. It was from a lady who addressed him as ‘dear’ and told him not to forget their previous discussion which he had already deleted.
When I asked him, he came up with flimsy excuses he has been begging me to believe him, that nothing is going on between them.
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My concern is if there is nothing happening, why does he delete their conversations and call history? Is he cheating on me? I have been a good wife in all aspects and he says it all the time. Now, I don’t know what I have done wrong? Please advice me.
This has nothing to do with you. It’s not your fault he is cheating. So don’t blame yourself one bit. I think you should take a drastic action so he will know you are serious about his attitude.
let him know cheating is ur deal breaker phone cheating or live cheating.
Men cheats not becos dd dont luv their wives or their wives did something bad to them, but becos d just want to cheat. Stop checking his chats biko to avoid heart attack one day
OMGOSH!!!!! When will marriage ever be an entire sane relationship.
Personal I will advice u stop worrying about DAT,provided he does not disrespect u by displaying it to u,just turn a blind eyes to and Dont confront him always,before it turns to nagging… Peace
My dear men are bond to cheat it is in their gem so mind ur biz play ur part do what u are supposed to do let God and his conscience judge him and also rember him in paryer I lazy man is a devil workshop
My dear men are bond to cheat it is in their gem so mind ur biz play ur part do what u are supposed to do let God and his conscience judge him and also rember him in paryer a lazy man is a devil workshop
Make your children his phone histories and stop checking his chats to avoid stories that touches the heart.
First of all my darling sister, please stop checking your husband’s phone. Please don’t give yourself unnecessary HBP. Like they say what you don’t know won’t hurt you.