Dear MIMsters: He Is An Unrepentant Cheat But I Can’t Leave Him For These Reasons

Dear Mimsters,

Please advise me on how to handle my chronic and unrepentant cheating husband? We’ve been married and living together for a year and a half.

He loved me so much that he one time paid my tuition at campus when my parents were not doing well.

However, my short-tempered husband nowadays accuses me of cheating on him but fails to provide any evidence when I ask him to.

He has positioned spies who give him false information about my activities because they want money from him.

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What hurts me the most is that he believes these rumours and tells his family that I am a cheat, no matter how much I try to prove my innocence. His relatives now call me a prostitute and no longer come to our home.

My husband is a contractor and whenever he gets money, who gets a new girl. He is always having different girls at ago and breaks their hearts at will. He can’t stay with one girl for two months.

Right now, his latest interest is a girl in our village who is a well known slut. He has tarnished my name in our village by doing this. He doesn’t even hide it from me neither does he feel any remorse for what he does.

He tells me what’s wrong with a man cheating. I’m always sad and my friends tells me that I’m a strong woman.

He doesn’t want me to work because he thinks I will meet other men. When I get a job, he takes my old line and buys me a new one.  To add to all these, he disrespects everyone in my family and doesn’t want me to talk to them. I am like a prisoner.

I can’t return to my parents because they live so deep in the village and I want to get a job in town.

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To make matters worse, right now, I’m pregnant and I need his help. I just can’t leave now because I have no where to start from.