Dear MIMsters: Where Do I Stand With My Her?
I’ve been seeing this girl for about a year and 3 months and now I do not know where I stand with her. I’m 34, she’s 23. Everything wasn’t too perfect with our relationship because she saw some flirtatious messages I had with another girl.
The truth is I’ve cheated on her once. We talked about it, and since then I’ve been in my best behavior but she still doesn’t trust me yet.
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Last month, she told me she’s now a born again Christian and said we need to re-evaluate our relationship. She said that if we must date, then it must be a godly relationship and we must stop having any sexual activities.
I didn’t really have any problem with these because I really love her and wanted to marry her. But my problem now is that she has stopped communicating with me like we use to and she doesn’t see any problem with that.
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I still can’t comprehend the whole thing. I’m thinking there’s more to it than she’s telling me and it is driving me crazy. I’ve asked her if she wants us to breakup so I can know where I stand. Her response was I should allow God take the lead.
She’s hurt please let her be. If she comes around good if not, let it go.
Not everyone can deal with cheating
hmmmmn.u too becom born again…keep hope alive
If he has really give his life to Christ he will still not be feeling the way he does. The lady is just being careful because once beaten twice shy.