Dear MIMster: My Husband Been Keeping Malice With Me Over This
We just had our first baby and we will be having a dedication ceremony soonest. My husband has been keeping malice with me since last week Sunday simply because I bought a dress to wear on our child’s dedication ceremony.
I even suggested that we wore matching outfits for the church and reception but he said that he doesn’t have money for that. He said we should wear our old clothes. But the old clothes I have are my maternity ones. Besides, this is our first child and he has organized a very big ceremony.
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My husband hardly gives me money to buy things for myself, yet, I have noticed that my husband often behaves like this anytime I buy a new dress for myself and I am no longer finding it funny. Therefore, I have decided not to talk to him too.
One major challenge is that my mother is here with us for Omugwo (child care). She’s been asking me what the problem is since she noticed that my husband has stopped calling me by the pet name he calls me. I have been pretending like everything is fine.
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Please tell me, how do I handle this situation as he is waiting for me to come beg him first and I promised myself to stop begging him when I have done nothing wrong.
Most men behaves this way, you both are young in marriage, pretend as nothing happened and continue from there the conversation stop, be mature and make yourself happy, because you gonna stay together for long, this is marriage for you…..Wishing you a blissful marriage and happy dedication ceremony
Exactly, you have done nothing wrong so don’t beg him. So you can’t buy things for yourself? Smh.
It Will be better If you beg him so as to allow peace to reign… Remember men have this ego…. Thats what I do and I have peace
For naming ceremony/ child dedication, After the baby, the mother should be the next person to be celebrated. Abeg, make ur head gear to be the satellite type on that day. U deserve all the joy. To carry a pregnancy to term, & go through delivery no be joke. Just continue relating with him as if nothing happened. U didn’t err in this one.
hmm he cant buy clothes but he can organized s a huge party.biko who carroi d. d child and gave birth to d child. he is celebratin