Dear MIMsters: Should I Call Off This Relationship With My Igbo Man?
I reside in South Africa and I’ve been dating this man for quite a while. I’m 25 while he’s 38. I must say I love him a lots even though he’s an Igbo from Onitsha doing fraud here in South Africa.
Meanwhile, I’m a Pharmacist.
Here is the thing. I’ve asked him about us settling down and he’s said that we are going to fly down together to Nigeria in January. We have prepared all the necessary papers and just waiting to get my leave so we can go on this trip.
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His family already knows that he’s bringing someone home even though they don’t yet know me.
The problem is that Chibueze is a cheat and a liar. His lies can cover the sun.
I just realized that he got a woman from Botswana pregnant and forced her to abort it. He has lied to 4 different women in Nigeria, promising them marriage, while other women are busy sending him dollars.
My dear Mimsters, we are planning to have a child next year after we return from Nigeria but with all that I have found out about him, I’m scared to commit myself to t his. I have been thinking, how do I cope with a man who depends on lies for a living?
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My Bpharm graduation is coming up next week and my sister is coming in town to meet with Bae at the ceremony. I need to decide as early as possible. Your concerned sister…
Why are you putting yourself in a situation? Do you want to leave the rest of your life with a cheat and a liar? You are too young for all these.
Be thanking God that you know now before you marry him. Stop the whole relationship now. The Bible says if the foundation is faulty what can a righteous do. You will find your own man, from the experience, he is not yours let him go. You will thank your star in many years to come.
Be thanking God that you know now before you marry him. Stop the whole relationship now. The Bible says if the foundation is faulty what can a righteous do. You will find your own man, from the experience, he is not yours let him go. You will thank your star in many years to come.
I think you know what to do but you just need someone to say it.
Sis, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE”(the type of running where you remove your shoes before starting).
A man with that kind of work and history with women has nothing but mystery to offer you,he is a ‘joker’. Lying and cheating is not just his work but a way of life.
Also,am concerned about your values; for you to think of marrying a fraud?
A word is enough for the wise( this is many words).
My dear sister, u said he is doing fraud as a living. Do u expect a fraudster to be a saint to u. U r too young nd precious to put ursef in this right corner. Take ur leave, there are beta men out there.
what do u expect from a fraudster…my dear walk away sorry run away