Dear MIMsters: My Baby Daddy Let Me Down In The Past, Can I Trust Him?
Hello MIMsters, my wedding is coming up, but I am not sure if I should go ahead, even though I love my boyfriend and I have forgiven him for what he did to me in the past.
I met my boyfriend last year. Our relationship had been perfect up until I got pregnant for him. He started accusing me of cheating on him with my fellow colleague. I tried to explain to him that I had nothing to do with my colleague, but he didn’t listen to me.
He kept on insisting that I was guilty. His mother however believed me and stood by me. I carried my pregnancy without him all through the nine months. He never cared about me, the pregnancy nor how I fared. I forgave him though.
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After I put to bed, his family asked that we do a paternity test which I initially refused. After much persuasion from close friends, I gave in. I knew that I had nothing to lose and it was going to give me an avenue to clear my name and prove that I wasn’t a cheat.
We did the paternity test and it came out positive. He then came to plead with my family for forgiveness. Since then, he has been the best of men. He now takes care of us and pampers us like treasured gold. Despite all he put me through, I still love him and I have forgiven him for all that he did to me; the shame he brought on me inclusive.
What I need your opinion on is this: should I go ahead with the marriage after all that has happened? Please do not insult me, only advice me.
If you want to then go ahead. I personally won’t marry a man like that.
let your heart lead u…take ur head along
Marry him I think he will give you all the love in his heart for you and your child.
Have a blessed day dear!