Dear MIMsters: Will It Be Proper To Enter a Relationship With Steve?

Will it be proper to enter a relationship with Steve? I started dating Dennis last year in October after he returned from service. We met in my church.

I loved him but as our relationship developed, I discovered he’s very negligent about things that I consider important.

Dennis doesn’t have a job yet, but he complains of being too busy to spend time with me. He is always so aggressive towards me every time. Anytime I bring up a topic about the future, he tells me he doesn’t know if he’s going to settle down at all.

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Meanwhile, there’s this other guy with who I am friends with. Steve attends the same church with Dennis and I and they both know each other. Unlike Dennis, Steve is so caring and shows up whenever I need help.

Even though he has a job, Steve never complains about spending time with me. We’ve been friends since I started my relationship with Dennis and now that I’ve ended my relationship with him, Steve has been there to pacify me.  Even though ending things with Dennis hurt me, I can’t keep forcing the guy to be responsible.

Now, Steve is clearly asking me out for a relationship and I really like him. The thing is I don’t know if it’s proper to enter a relationship with him since Steve and Dennis both attend my church. I am shattered already.