Dear MIMster: Please Tell My Mom To Wade Into My Matrimonial Issues Before It’s Too Late

Can you please help me appeal to my mother, yes you heard me right! The very woman who gave birth to me, who nursed me to health, and who raised me with very strong values to please, wade into my marital affairs? At this rate, if she still refuses to intervene, if she continues to tell my siblings to also not intervene, my wife would succeed in killing me o.

My wife, Mariam is the real devil! That girl will kill me someday, hopefully not before my story gets to your readers.

There is nothing that satisfies her. She derives joy in making my life miserable. And even though we do not have any child between us yet, even after 7 years of marriage, I have never cheated on her. I have friends who tell me to look out but I just can’t!

This is not because I am not good looking nor because I cannot afford it, I am a rich young man. I celebrated my 40^th birthday two weeks ago and gifted myself with a brand new car… I have everything a side chick will be pleased with to go out with me but I just can’t do it.

My parents raised us with very strong moral values and one of the things they would normally say to any of their children who was about to get married- both male and female was, “You have brought this man/woman home as the one you wish to marry out of millions of women/men out there. We do not know the wife/husband of our child and still welcome a concubine o. You cannot bring any other man/woman to us after this one. This relationship must work. It must lead to marriage and you must stay married at all costs.”

We used to think they were joking until the day my elder sister came home to report that her husband cheated on her. My dad (Of blessed memory) did not even allow her sit before sending her back, and my mum was solidly behind her husband. I mean, they didn’t even enquire about how she found out, if she had confronted the guy, what he said if she had, if he apologized or not… Nothing! They just sent her right back into the guy’s arms.

Since that day, none of my siblings had ever come home to report whatever happens in their marriages.

When my dad passed on 2 years ago, we felt mummy would change her stance about her children’s marriages but she remains like she’s always being.

She visits this page very often. This is one of her relaxation tools; please beg her to wade in. If she doesn’t, Mariam would kill me o.

I have friends at work who keep two homes simultaneously and none of the women knows about the existence of the other.

They are willing to teach me the ropes but like my parents will always say to us, “Remember the child of whom you are.”

Mariam abuses me unendingly. She gets physical with me. She curses me. She goes through my phone every now and then, and if she finds any message/chat from any woman; it doesn’t matter who the woman was, she would call and scare the person away. She would sometimes punish me by refusing me sex.

I am almost losing my job… Every one of my female clients has been scared away by Mariam. She has refused to get another job since she was laid off from the bank she was working at. She says I am glued to her for better for worse.

I am tired! I am dying! This is an S.O.S… Please tell my mom to wade in. Mummy, I know you will see this because you relax with this page every evening. Is it until you are called to carry my corpse before you wade in?

Mummy, if you are my mother, this is the time to show it, Mariam has become physical with me. She hit me yesterday and she is threatening that she will kill me and no one will ask her why. She says she will claim temporary insanity.

MIMsters, please appeal to my mum to wade in now before it is too late o.

Thank you!