“Sex Is Now The New Application Letter…”- Ronke Oshodi-Oke On Prevalent Sexual Abuse In The Workplace
Nollywood actress and movie producer, Ronke Ojo-Anthony popularly called by her stage name, Ronke Oshodi-Oke has taken to her Instagram page to pour out her heart on the issue of sex in exchange for employment, as prevalent in the country presently.
According to the 44-year old talented actress and mom, back in the days, jobs were merit-based but now, she says, ‘the story is twisted‘. She opined further that it is now a thing of knowing someone at the top or using what one has, to get what one wants. She concluded that the society is sick!
She wrote further that, most girls are now scared to even be friends with their bosses, while referring to ‘sex as the new application letter.’
Ronke concluded her rant by admonishing girls who may be going through such struggle not to give in, saying, “take a step backwards and ask yourself for how long? To what end?”
See what she wrote below:
“We were all born with different dreams!! We all had plans!! We all pictured our lives in perfection!! We were ready to take over the world!!
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But no one told us the sacrifices we had to pay!! No one told us of the exchange involved!! No one told is that being a girl child came with its own torture and ungodly sacrifices!! No one told us that most times we had to give more than just our brains to get that dream job!! ___
Back then it was all by merit but right now the story is twisted!! It is now a thing of knowing someone at the top or using what you have to get what you want!! The society is sick!! ___
Most girls are now scared to even be friends with their bosses, so as to avoid the unknown!! Sex is now the new application letter!! ___
Even guys are not left out!! Female/male bosses use most of these guys as a tool of satisfaction all in the name giving them their dream job!! ___
To everyone out there going through this sickening situation the country has put us all in, please my darling ❤ take a step backwards and ask yourself for how long? To what end?
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Restructure your life! Rediscover yourself! Pursue your dreams!! Be a noisemaker if you have to❤ Dare to become more and hustle legitimately!! Iyanu ma shele!! Don’t sell your body for money or any JOB!”
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