Dear MIMsters: Why I Have Been Venting My Frustrations On My Husband
I read a Mimster’s story here who said she isn’t fulfilled as all her mates are doing well. I’m also in such mess and feel the same way to the extent that I have been venting my frustrations on my husband.
When he gets angry, I would flare up, insult and call him names. After the rage, I start regretting but I don’t apologize.
He has a Masters degree while I have a B.SC but we have no job yet. Hubby is trying in his own little way but I expect more.
A few days ago, we were talking about Christmas clothes for myself and my 2 year old daughter and he said he will give us N10,000. I so insulted him and walked out on him. But really what does N10,000 want to get for a mother and her daughter.
I was living better when I was single. Most of my clothes, shoes and bags are what I had before I got married, nothing new.
I am always giving him this cold attitude because all my mates are working. I can’t get a job because once they see my status is married, I get rejected. I have lost two offers because of this. I once told him to help me edit it out of my CV but he said no.
Our sexual life is zero and moreover, he is a one minute man and can’t go a second round. I plan to leave him when I get a job and can take care of myself and my daughter.
I saw pictures of his friends when they take their families out on weekends but mine, the last time he took us out was in December.
I got this job offer but the employer is asking for my body in return and I am just thinking of giving in.
Really? waiting to read where he doesn’t love me enough, where he cheats or beats u bt fortunately I didn’t. Madam please support your husband by encouraging him. I don’t know him but with his masters n hardwork he has potentials. Remember u cannot remain single for long
Really? waiting to read where he doesn’t love me enough, where he cheats or beats u bt fortunately I didn’t. Madam please support your husband by encouraging him. I don’t know him but with his masters n hardwork he has potentials. Remember u cannot remain single for long.