Nollywood actress, Bose Oladimeji has disclosed that she is calling it quits on her ‘marriage’ of two years owing to continuous domestic abuse she claims she has been subjected to.
After two years of living together with the father of her kids, the popular Yoruba actress says she’s had just about enough and is walking out fast. According to her, the violence against her has become life-threatening, stating also that she was baffled that raping her had become habitual for her now estranged live-in lover.
The mum-of-two who is not legally married to the man in question assumed wifely duties at the beginning of their relationship and began living with him two years ago.
She told Vanguard that the domestic violence she has been subjected to is not only violent but now life-threatening.
“Yes I’m ready to go, in fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life, my life is very precious to me.
I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them.
They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now, I need to run away for my life. I need to save myself.
My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now,
Highlighting the sour details of the abuse, Bose Oladimeji told Vanguard that her estranged husband resorted to beating her whenever he comes home drunk
“Whenever he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and starts misbehaving, beating me. He acts very crazy.
Any weapon he sees around he uses it on me but when he is sober he starts to regret whatever he has done.
What I’m saying is that in the process of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what will people say?”
she said with agony in her eyes. When asked if she didn’t see it coming, Bose Oladimeji said he pretended and hid his true nature at the beginning of their relationship, explaining how they met and how all the abuse began.
“We meet in the club through a friend and he was well presented and loving, humble and respectful and he spent a lot of money that night but after everything, to be honest, we went home separately.
The following day we hooked up and that was how it all started. He was taking good care of me and that was one of the reasons I fell in love with him.
But what I found odd about him is the forceful way he has sex with. No foreplay, nothing, just to jump on me and forces his way through.
No affection, no cuddling, no romance just brutal sex. I was raped like this most nights, and usually followed by beating and insults,”
