‘I’ve Walked Into Rooms Where The Greeting Is: “Good Morning, Sirs” And I’m Standing Right There’ – Bella Adenuga-Disu Shares Encounters With Workplace Bias

Bella Adenuga-Disu, the Executive Vice Chairman of Globacom network has shared her experience with workplace bias, recalling a few instances when she was overlooked.
Bella who is the CEO of a real estate company and daughter of billionaire businessman, Dr. Mike Adenuga, shared her experiences in a message to celebrate the International Women’s Day on March 8, 2025.
According to her, she has walked into rooms where the greeting is: “Good morning, sirs” while she was standing right there. She noted that this shows that women aren’t just overlooked; but sometimes perceived as invisible.
In her message, the 38-year-old seasoned business executive stressed the importance of women advocating for themselves at work, being firm and unapologetic about it.
She noted that women have spent years pouring into others: families, careers, communities, often at the cost of themselves. Now, she’s happy more women are recognizing that prioritizing their own growth isn’t selfish; but necessary.
She wrote:
“I’ve walked into rooms where the greeting is: “Good morning, sirs.” And I’m standing right there.
It doesn’t happen all the time, but when it does, it’s a reminder that women aren’t just overlooked; sometimes, we’re invisible. That’s why advocating for ourselves is so important.
It doesn’t mean shouting to be heard, it can be as simple as saying, “Actually, I wasn’t addressed,” or “I’d like to ensure my perspective is considered”. Firm. Polite. Unapologetic. Then we move on, no over-explaining, no dwelling on it.
But speaking up isn’t just about being seen in the moment, it’s about reclaiming space in every part of our lives.
Women have spent years pouring into others: families, careers, communities, often at the cost of themselves. Now, more women are recognizing that prioritizing their own growth isn’t selfish; it’s necessary.
I love seeing women stand up and say, ‘It’s my time.’ Owning their ambitions. Stepping into leadership. Speaking with authority. Taking the opportunities they once hesitated to claim.
This year’s International Women’s Day reminds us to take action – not just for others, but for ourselves too.
Happy International Women’s Day.”
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