Dear MIMsters: My AS Status Ruined All My Relationships Until I Met This Guy But…

I am 25 years old, a graduate and working. I had a relationship of four years and it crashed just because of our genotype (AS), since then all the guys that I have been meeting all have the AS status. Somehow it automatically won’t work out if the guy’s genotype is AA.

It’s been like this until I met this particular guy an (AS) too. He loved me and wouldn’t want to let go. After some time, I came to the reality of life and had to push him away but kept him as a friend because I knew it was not going to workout between us even when he wanted to take the risk.

On countless occasions, I had this affinity with only those whose genotypes were AS. Though looking at me, you can hardly tell I am only 25. I look too mature for my age and most times people who don’t know my age think I should be approaching 30 or above considering when I left school 6 years ago.

I see myself liking any person who is an AS until I get to find out about their genotype. At a point, I lost hope and took it as my fate. I concentrated more on my job and gave it a less thought until I decided to take it to God in prayers. I took it upon myself to travel to a particular holy ground to pray on a monthly basis, not until a few days ago I decided I was going to have a midnight prayer and ask God about my fate.

That morning to the day I planned having the midnight prayer, I dreamt where someone I didn’t know too well proposed to me and I was reluctant because I was wondering how this recent guy was going to feel but I later collected the ring and kept smiling and admiring it till I woke up smiling.

I prayed about it and left for work fasting in preparation for the mid night prayers. Only for me to bump into this guy’s friend and he told me how he has been feeling about me and how he wants me knowing too well it’s not going to work out with myself and his friend, while I was still talking with him, his friend who is my boyfriend saw us together and was so angry. He felt like his friend betrayed him by asking me out. He said he knows he can’t have me but his friend won’t too.

I am a bit confused. Could what played out in reality be a manifestation of my dream considering it happened on the same day I had the dream? I don’t want to be the reason why two friends become enemies but is my dream telling me something I should pay attention to? Will I be betraying my AS boyfriend if I start a relationship with his friend who is not AS?