Adekemi Taofeeq on Why the Babymama Trend Is On The Rise
Nollywood talented actress Adekemi Taofeeq is of the opinion that the babymama trend is on the rise due to men and the fear of wearing the ‘husband’ tag on themselves.
According to the talented actress she wants to be a wife and experience motherhood as a married woman not as a baby mama to a man who is not willing to take responsibility.
She revealed this in a recent interview with Vanguard, according to the ebony beauty, men prefer to be babydads than to being hooked as a husband, knowing they have a child somewhere.
However she does not believe that babymamas and papas are only common amongst celebrities, she believes it happens all around the world as men are the major factor behind it.
Taofeeq believes most men are not willing to pay the bills and leave the mother of the child to shoulder the responsibilty alone, them knowing they have a child is enough for them without caring for the child.
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Read excerpts from interview below:
“I really can’t talk much on this but what I know is that it doesn’t apply only to Nollywood, it happens everywhere. The simple reason is that men don’t want to shoulder any responsibility.
They prefer to father a child and leave the mother to shoulder the responsibility alone. Knowing they have a child is enough for them without caring for the child. They just don’t want to pay their bills a man.
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She concluded saying if a man impregnanted her, she is getting married to him and will never live or tolerate any babymama or babypapa drama in her own life. she said if she could she would have been one since.
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It can never happen to her. If I wanted to, I would have been a babymama a long time ago. I want to be a mother and a wife. I can never be in such a situation because at this point in my life I don’t go around with unserious men.
If I get pregnant I marry, straightaway. Anyway, I don’t date boys, I deal with men, real men,” she beamed.
Photo credit: Instagram
Hmmmmmmmmm.
I just think people are making geting preggy n givin birth outside weddlock look cool n d in thing dat decency doesn’t matter.y would a man wanna marry u wen u ve given him everythn wtout payin a kobo.give him sex, live with him,give birth for him u already a no kobo wife.women should learn to close their legs.m entitled to my own opinion
I think girls are becoming lazier, they want to hook up with a guy that can foot their bills.