“A Baby Won’t Keep a Man” – Toni Payne Dishes Out Relationship Advice

Nigerian talented singer, 9ice’s ex wife, Toni Payne took to her social media to advise ladies who think having a baby would trap a man. She said the desperation to be a Mrs is real and if you can’t tag a man you are dating for fear of being ignored, you need a reality check.

9ice and Toni Payne who have one child together divorced in 2010 after being married for one and a half years. Just like her experience, having a baby for 9ice did not stop her marriage with the singer from crashing.

“Ladies understand. If u like 100. A baby won’t keep a man. They will keep u in d house like decoration & love who they love outside. That desperation to be Mrs is so real ladies stop being slay mamas and start joining the trap gang lol.

Also if you have to trap a man to marry u when he clearly doesn’t want to, you have lost the plot. Ladies need to stop this rubbish act. My advice is free… take it or leave it.

He says he loves me and I believe him. If u r claiming a man you can’t even @ for fear of being ignored…its time for a reality check. Don’t be a desperado or Elenu razor.”

She also went on to advice that power couples are not built overnight. According to her most times when two people who have been through hell get back together, there may be value in what they’ve always had.

The mother of one who is not in any public relationship, said she would rather remain single than remain in a loveless relationship pretending everything was alright.

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Power couples aren't built overnight. Most times they r two people who av been through hell & back 2geda, so there is value in what they av
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— Toni ?♥️ (@tonipayne) September 7, 2017

I'd rather be happily single than miserable in a loveless marriage, pretending everything is good. ??

— Toni ?♥️ (@tonipayne) September 7, 2017

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