Dear Mimsters: I’m 7 Months Pregnant but My Boyfriend’s Attitude Is Pushing Me Back to My Ex
Dear Mimsters, I hope you can help me to deal with this situation I am in.
I am 25yrs old and 7 months pregnant. My boyfriend of 8 months whom I’m carrying a baby for, does not stay home even when he has a chance to. He would rather go out everyday with his friends and come home drunk around 3am, somedays he goes on work trips for from 3weeks to over a month.
I have tried telling him that I miss him and that the little time he gets away from work should be devoted to planning for our future. He scolds me instead and asks me if I don’t see that he is working hard to bring money home.
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I am not pleased with anything in this relationship. All i need is a bit of attention and intimacy. I cry myself to sleep everyday, is it good for the baby??
On the flip side, I have an ex boyfriend whom I dated for 4 years and broke up because I wanted him to marry me – all my friends were getting married- but he refused and we broke up. Now this ex wants us to marry as soon as I birth the baby I’m carrying.
My ex boyfriend is better and puts my needs before his, he is ready to wait for me so we can get married, and has decided to take the baby as his.
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I’m in a dilemma. I know my ex loves me more than anything, his mother and my family know each other well. I regret dumping him and moving on so quickly. Now I’m stuck with questions but no answers.
Won’t I be making a mistake marrying a man who hardly spends time at home nor cares for me? Should I break it off with my baby daddy and marry my ex?. Please advice!
to should have tried knowing him well enough befr gettn pregnant fr him dat was too fast if u ask me….i don’t see any future wt your baby daddy
You are as confused as they come. You have known this guy just 8 months and already 7 months preggers? At 25 you shouldn’t be so desperate to get married. I don’t even know what to advice you sincerely.
You were too fast to get pregnant for your baby daddy,but on the other side,try to sit your baby daddy down and explain things to him,and make sure you know if ur ex still lover you or if he just pity you….men can want you today and hate you tomorrow especially when u are pregnant for another man,finally my dear,pray about it,there’s nothing God can’t do
I think u need to borrow patience from whoever that have it, impatience make u break 4yrs relationship with ur ex and become 7 months pregnant in 8 months relationship, that means u had sex within the first month of ur relationship. I think u hav got pregnant to a stranger and the truth is down on u(am not trying to judge u oo).Now u are planing of going back to ur ex? stop playing game or gamble with ur life, u need to get back to God to redirect ur path to his will. God is the founder of marriage inform Him before u take any step enough of the game.
Girl, you should focus your attention on having the child in good health. As far as am concerned none of these men is worth it.