Stella Damasus Answers Her Question, Says She’ll Never Put A Condom In Her Man’s Suitcase
Stella Damasus asked y’all to share your thoughts on a married woman putting condoms in her unfaithful husband’s suitcase because she doesn’t believe in divorce (read here), now she’s answered the question by herself.
Speaking during her ‘Undiluted with Stella Damasus’ show on i2radio in Atlanta, USA, she said,
“If a man cheats once and you catch him, your reaction to his cheating would determine what happens the next time. If I have tried everything and he continues, then I’m sorry, I wouldn’t stay there. I would never be the one to put condoms in his suitcase. I’m sorry darling, your putting a condom in a suitcase will not change him. Instead of putting condoms, write a note telling him how much you love him and ask him to protect you and your home.”
Who agrees?
She’s right on this matter. Nice point Stella
She’s so right. I mean why put a condom? Is he a child? Should he not know to protect himself? And even his wife? It’s pathetic when I read women saying put a condom in his brief case
Writtin a note and putting a condom are all the same
I think a note is better
Why put condoms in his briefcase? he can decide not to use the condom and thereby exposing you to STDs. Run for your life.
Well,shes correct
She asked the question and now she answers too. Hmmmm good for her. I care not!!!!!
Well I agree she’s right
Stella Yu are totally right. Besides Yu would have given him the green light to go on. I agree with u
She is right this time
Note a bit better dan putting condom in his suitcase.
Lolzz
But na wa, if the tables are turned ,would the man put condoms in the woman’s suitcase?
I agree a hundred percent!!! If one does, it’s like encouraging him. He may not even use them.
A note first if no changes it means there is no love and respect so leave b4 u get STDs
She is right
Even if we know our hubby is a cheat all we need to do is to pray for God to change him putting condoms won’t change anything. I agree with her
the note o, the condom o
Na thisame thing o
let’s not deceive ourselves,
you are passing thisame message
Hmmm, such a wife should pray for her hubby for God to change him. Putting a love note in ur hubby’s cloth/bag should not only be when u are suspecting him. Let it be a life style!
i do
I think Stella idea is not to change him cos it won’t but to channel the hatred and animosity that would emanate from his wicked acts to love. That’s the best and first way to keep ur health intact. If u put a pack of condoms in his bag, he might not use the one you kept. But he would still use a condom. So u don’t have to worry yourself over nothing. Women, no kill urself for man o