Dear MIM Readers: How Do I Stop My Wife From Keeping Bad Friends?
My wife and I have been married for 11 years. Through those years we had 4 kids and she was a good wife.
About 2 years ago, my wife started keeping bad company. They think they are the so-called big girls who should not submit to their husbands.
My wife goes to all-night parties with her friends, smokes and drinks. They other day, I came back home but she wasn’t home. I waited for her outside and saw her being dropped off by a man. What is a married woman and a mother doing with another man?
I couldn’t hold myself from giving her a few slaps that day. She left that night and didn’t come back. Now, she’s asking for a divorce. What do I do with the kids?
I know my wife has been good but if not for her friends. How do I get her back to being a good wife again?
She’s gone astray. There’s nothing u can do now than to pray for her. I am sorry this is happening to you.
Lord have mercy
There are no words
My brother prayer is the key please commit her into God’s hands n ask God to arrest ur wife for u.
Hmmm as it stands now she is so far from you. So what we normally advice the women who are going through this kind of direction is prayers! We tell them to pray so you also should be pray and also invite the parents to also try and intervene. Its not only women that should be praying for men to change so men should also pray as well.
Sorry oga it’s obvious ur wife is tired of the marriage.About d custody of the kids,your wife is too irresponsible to care for them but will you have the time to do that?l believe you can save your marriage.Something must have made her change just 2 yrs ago.Please for the sake of your kids,sit her down in a calm n mature way n talk things out.Pls don’t give up on ur marriage too soon.Make an effort
This is serious, I’ve come to realize that once a married woman starts misbehaving it takes the Grace of God to bring her back to her senses. Your wife has strayed and whatever she’s doing now is so right in her eyes. One question poster did u marry your wife at a very young age? If yes then that shows why she goes to club, smoke and drink because she didn’t do it when she should have done it but that doesn’t justify her actions. Call her parents and yours and talk things over and know if you wronged her without knowing it. If she insist on leaving then cut her loose before she kills you because I’ve not seen a man that will tolerate a wife that keeps late night, smoke, drink and have a man drop her off at home in the night. I pray you will be able to save your marriage. Good luck
Now that she’s asking for divorce it means she’s way past talking to. You should have taken steps when it all started cos I don’t think it started in a day. She smoking means she’s gone far. If you can take care of your kids then give her the divorce before she corrupts your children. #myopinion#
Your wife must have been feeling lonely and bored at home with the 4 kids… i guess. Maybe she is trying to communicate with u in actions but unfortunately it didnt go well. My advice, since she is asking for divorce… try to work it out with her, if not then go along with it.
I think u unknowingly pushed her to the wall. Sit yourself down n reflect on where u both got it all wrong, then call her n ask for her forgiveness. Make her know u love her alot. Above all,pray hard. Best of luck
Pherpahs u once cheated and did all those or still do nd she’s tired of crying and started hers. Pray for her simple
Pray for her and equally talk to her people. She’s been decieved.
WHAT DO U THINK U WANT TO DO THAN LETTING HER HAVE HER WAY, ONE DAY HER EYE WILL CLEAR. IS BETTER FOR YOU TO STAY ALIVE AND TAKE CARE OF UR KIDS. TAKE THEM TO YOUR MUM IF STILL ALIVE OR BETTER GET A NANNY, IF U DON WANT TO DIE OR GET BP
Then give it to her becos as it stands now she has gon wild before she infects u with STDs
apart from her bad friends she is in love with another man,she has found comfort in the arms of another man, and u may have pushed her into this (not siding her anyways) pls invite her family,invite people you know she listens to,even ask ur oldest child to talk to mummy,tel him/her what to say to her or better still make the child write a note to mummy,then try to be caring,don’t yell or spank her at every bad thing she does,just overlook, pray as well…. she is already in the comfort of another man,having her back will be difficult
The only solution now is prayer & talking to her, maybe called her family member those she is close to talk with her, she need help! I pray dat the d help she urgently need but refuse to admit locate her in Jesus name. The path she’s towing leads to only one end – destruction!!!
Sir please report to her parents n pray for her as well
I will say, let her go for now.
Calling her family to talk to her might help
Oga pray ooo pray pray pray
Just keep prayin n bring her family in
Hmmm Prayer is d only Key to ur problem nw..