Dear MIM: My husband’s girlfriend calls him all the time but he tells me to ignore
I need some advice on this issue.
My marriage will be 3 years by May this year, and I have a son to the glory of God. The issue here is my husband has being chatting and making calls to one particular lady.
He started dating this lady while we were courting, after my introduction. Before we wedded, we had fought about this particular girl’s issue. My husband promised to let her go and we had our wedding.
To cut the story short, for over two months now, my husband and the girl have been in communication. They are always texting and calling each other.
One day, this woman asked my husband when he would be having his second child and my husband replied that his second child will come from her. I got to find out when I used his phone to browse and her messages started coming in.
I confronted my hubby who said I should ignore her messages, that there’s nothing between them and that she doesn’t live in Nigeria. Now, she has graduated to the point of calling him at all times. She calls at any time, when my husband is eating, when he’s eating, about to sleep, at anytime. They talk during the day when he’s in the office or at night. Please what can I do to end this?
You knew he was dating her before you married him so what advice do you seek? You brought this upon yourself so enjoy it Mtscheeeeeeewwww. I am sorry I sound harsh but I am pissed when I see women marrying men who cheat. Did you think he will stop after you guys get married? Imagine him telling the girl his second child would come from her and asking you to ignore. What guts? I am very sure the said girl doesn’t even know he is married.
If I tell you to ignore now you will say I dint advice but to me that’s the best option here since lady in question knows he is married but decide to still turn pest then leave her to the judgement of God. Just do your part as a wife and don’t forget to present her before God in your prayer asking God avenge you.
That girl get liver no be small. Well your husband gave her that gut.
Confront the useless woman simple
Simply ignore them buy if u can’t call d woman and ask her to stop calling your husband since u v confronted your hubby and he’s not doing anything about it
Some men tho. Madam call d woman and warn her to stay away from your husband period and ask that your shameless husband to choose between u and dat slut. What rubbish
Pray 4 God 2 separate two of by putting confussion in their midst.
If I were you, I’d gladly release the spirit of confusion into their midst, and that’s by going on my knees. Cry your heart out to God,and He’ll answer you. I’d advise that you see this movie…. War room. You’ll understand better how to fight ur battles. God bless you
U should have backed out. Well start ur own chatting too ..sometimes for.men, it good to do to them what they are doing to then as that’s the only way they learn. Fake chatting when he’s around d be smiling and fake calls too
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The man has no iota of respect for you as his wife.I think at this point all you need to do is to pray for God to put enmity between your husband and the strange woman
U noticed all these n still went ahead? Report to his parents n confront that bitch.
Nawah ur man is d prblm here. Report him immediately dnt ignore
Please don’t ignore o, your husband has no respect for you madam. You caused this upon yourself. You knew he was a flirt before marriage. Nothing will change cos you encouraged it. Why should a married man talk to a girl who’s not a relative every day n night and you ignore it? Abeg e no make sense. Soon you will hear that he has fathered a child somewhere. You are too soft abeg. Talk to him about it and tell him to quit it. Pay to God too for wisdom.
Same is aPplicable to me bt ve decided nt to give myself hypertension.
I’ll suggest you threaten him and say you dont think you can condone d fact dat he has another lady out there and so you want to divorce him so dat he can enjoy his new bride. Let’s see if dis will shake him up a little and maybe retrace his steps. He has no respect for you and he doesn’t love you as far as I’m concerned. Pray dat God will separate him and every strange woman. He must think ure not a serious wife cos most men will never pick a girlfriend’s call in d presence of their wives. You are not suppose to tolerate dis kind of tin in d name of submission o
Dunno if my contribution will be heard,if I were you I’ll simply ignore them,am a guy sometimes I chat with my female friends a lot that I even chat dirty with them that my fiance will be complaining but honestly I have nothing with them,you don’t wanna make a full out of ursef by confronting her only to find out they have nothing together
Mr kelechi u r right,but i think that madam u need to pray.Like me,my son’s father left me to nurse my child alone cos i work.He moves around wt his useless gf.I have reported her to God tjudge.
i dn’t undestand why some men do this, no respect 4 d woman u call ur wife, and for dt bitch call ex, whatever u sow she must surely reap, ur ex is married 4 goodness sake, look 4 someone else. Pls dn’t call, but talk with ur hubby, and pray 2 God to visit her with Holy Ghost bulldozer
Ignore, confront, pray or walk away..choose one, I cant decide for you.
Sorry you can’t make it stop anymore, you had the opportunity to make the right decision before the marriage but you didn’t. Now you have to deal with it.
Hmmm thank god baby dey talk ooo. Baby u dey see am?
The only problem you have is your hubby, he need someone to talk some sense into him or his responsibilities are not enough for him to cater for
Some ppl are advising you go call the girl and wArn her. My dear don’t because it will only give her more room to insult you which dill be so devastating to you. Ignore her n your husband. Fight the battle on your knees
how com i still went ahead when u new dis