SAD! New Mum’s Fiance & Mother Die While Racing to Hospital
A 24-year-old US new mum, Crystal Matrau-Belt, got devastating news from her stepdad three hours after her son, Jeremiah’s birth that her mother and fiance had been killed while racing to the hospital for the delivery. Police say that speed was a factor in the crash which saw her man, Emil Skokan, hit a tree.
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The grieving new mum reportedly told the Kalamazoo Gazette:
“I got a text from (Emil), “Do you want me to bring up anything?” and just said “I’ll meet you up there” and that he loved me. I asked my stepdad, ‘Do you know where Emil is?’ My dad said, ‘Honey, that’s what we need to talk to you about’. I just all of a sudden had a sinking feeling something was wrong. I just didn’t know that it was my fiance and my mum,” she said.
She continued:
“They were trying to get here. They didn’t know what was going on, and a lot of medical stuff was happening. Their main focus was being able to be here because I didn’t want them to miss anything. They just wanted to be there for me. She (her mum) could not wait for him to be here. She had big plans to take him to the zoo, to Disney World.”
Skokan, who has two other sons — Emil Skokan IV and Kayden Skokan — would have celebrated his 35th birthday on Sunday.
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Ms Matrau-Belt said she is pulled between joy at being a first-time mum to grief at losing the two people she loved the most.
“I waited so long to be able to have a child, and to have a child but then have two things ripped out of my life, it’s just really hard to deal with and even process. I go to pick up (Jeremiah) and I see Emil in him. It’s hard, but just to know that I have a piece of Emil — that helps a little bit,” she said.
So sad!
This is so sad, a day she was supposed to be happy together with the whole family.
Awwwww this is so sad. May their souls RIP. Amen.
sorry for the loss dear
Dis is sad, God will wipe away ur tears
So sad, may their souls RIP.
This is so sad
So sad! May their soul rest in peace!
may they rest in peace,Amen
Oh my do sad
May their souls rest in peace
Very sad.. May their souls RIP. Lesson learned. I remember telling my hubby to slow down when i was in labour. I could barely sit and l was screaming. He was driving so fast. I had to ask him to stop the car. In pains, i looked him in the eye and told him i wanted us to arrive at the hospital safe and whole but not in pieces.bunknown to us, there was serious ice on the road ahead of us. An accident had already occured and it was in the night. I don’t want to imagine what could’ve happened if i kept quiet and allowed him to drive 125km/h on an 80km/h road just because we needed to make it to the hospital as quickly as possible. No matter what, over speeding is not good. Life has no duplicate.
It’s so sad
Aww so painful
So sad
hmmm sad
So sad indeed. I can only imagine how the woman feels right now
aiya.sad
So sad!